1. sensitive , or
2. funny, or
3. sad, or
4. painful, or
5. meaningless... or
maybe all of the above or none of the above.... but, i think what im gonna write totally innocent, tiada kaitan dgn yg idup ataupun yg meninggal dunia...if ade pun total coincidence... so before aku tersinggungkan memane pihak... IM SORRY!! (buat gaye Amir Raja Lawak ni okay..)
well, this topic triggered in my head bile pg td on the way pg office, aku tercari2 siaran radio tempatan yg boleh meneman & meng"entertain" perjalanan pagi aku ke office work....so in d mist of nak cari mood kerja la pulak la kan lebih kurang?
well, terjumpa satu siaran radio ni yang DJ die agak menghiburkan dan fun, but the topic tu bknla psl marriage pn... its about something else... hmm tapi....
aku perasan skrg da jadi trend if geram dgn laki or bini sendiri,instead of cakap sendiri dengan dieorg, mereka2 ni pegi call siaran radio pulak untuk luahkan perasaan, tapi terkait la pulak dgn topik kt siaran radio tu pagi ni...hmm
dont get me wrong!its entertaining... but come on la...marriage tu SACRED and DIGNITY okay!tak perlu nak share dgn satu negara about your problems la....kadang2 problems yg kecik2 pun nk citer kt radio....haih...
ouh and another thing, marriage we entered its not throu easy way... ( ni excluding yg pegi lari ke siam kawen tu eh...) bukan senang nak mintak restu parents, for d parentz nak serahkan anak dara dieorg tu to total strangers or bakal suami pun bukannye senang!trust me guys,u will have to face this in future gak kn? so if korg not behave, korang bygkan mcm mane in future korg nak kene serahkan anak dara korg kt laki yg lousy cam korg...hmm susahkan? lagi nak kumpul duit hantaran, nak plan the wedding....nikah, majlis & evertyhing...ITS NOT EASY!AND IT REQUIRES SACRIFICES & HARD WORK!OKAY!
so why not try to appreciate benda yg susah ni?ni pun reminder untuk aku gak...tak rase rugi ke after all the effort and penat lelah tu disia2kan dgn pergaduhan sebab benda2 kecik je,even if ade third person pun!it should not be dat way! kalu btol2 setia x patut ada org ketiga! kan?lelaki ni kalu ckp psl bukak cawangan laen je mate terbeliak mcm ape...huh!
the term "I DONT LOVE YOU ANYMORE" its x a good excuse to escape from marriage....sebab,cer korg fikir if korg gaduh dgn anak....anak tu kene marah dgn korg, then time tu mesti anak tu cakap x sayang kan?abes mase tu bole ke putus hubungan anak ngan parents? pleasela, think outside the box cket....
it suppose to contain all these,
1. loyalty
2. trust
3. communication
4. encouragement
5. support
6. affection
7. love
8. respect
9. relaltionship dengan DIA...
10. maturity
11. understanding
hmm aku ni mmg pandai merapu kt cni..dan xde pulak aku cakap aku ni pakar dlm bab rumah tangga ni... even in my own marriage pun, still new, still byk weakness and flaws yg kene diperbetulkan dan diperbaiki...aku ni pun terlalu byk kelemahan diri...so anggapla ni peringatan utk aku gak...gentle reminder to all of us..okay?
so before ending your marriage, please think about your children....apa future dieorg...jgnla selfish sgt...tapi aku encourage end of marriage kalu wives yg di abuse or wife yg diabaikan oleh hubby ke...or more less like that la...tu sebabnye ade procedure and Mahkamah Syariah....so korg bole properly consult and get protection from Court order.... okay...ni jgnla pulak da kene pukul mcm ape,da masuk kuar hospital byk kali, but still stay lg menyerah diri...sumthg wrong gak tu kan?hmm....
for guys,u are leaders...but u dont own your family...u should be a good role model to the members of your own family...buruk contoh yg korg bg, buruk jugakla bnde yg dieorg ikut...simple as that...
CURRENT MODE : kesian dengan wives nad children yg jadi victims of broken marriage... (T_T) please be mature and sensible guys...you can be better than this... hmm
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